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Host guide

A scenario-based walkthrough for first-time hosts. Read it once end-to-end (15 min), then come back to the scenarios when something specific comes up.

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The whole job in seven lines

  1. Approve applicants in apply.sinthebottle.com.
  2. Stage the event in Sin the Bottle (one button in apply's event admin).
  3. Print cards on Avery J8871 stock from Officeworks (one sheet per 10 attendees). Cards are physical name tags with number, name, pronouns, intentions.
  4. Email join links to approved applicants from the event admin in apply. Each attendee gets their own /j/<token> URL to open on their phone.
  5. Hand out the physical cards at the door so people can be identified by number in the room.
  6. Run rounds from the host panel. Speed rounds to warm up, main rounds once everyone's settled, breaks when the energy needs a reset.
  7. Respond to yellow and red lights by physically going to the person who tapped them.

You never pick pairs. You never see consent flags. You run the clock, the structure, and the safety check-ins. The card is a name tag; the email link is how they actually get into the app.

Timeline: one week out to closing time

Monday (one week out)

What to do

What attendees see

Anyone you approve gets "You're in" plus event details plus a link to the attendee guide (what to expect, how consent works). They also get a link to edit their details (name, pronouns, bio, intentions) until you stage.

Tuesday-Thursday

What to do

Friday (day before)

What to do

Why test-claim?

It catches obvious bugs (wrong URL, wrong name) before the night. Reprint / rename anything that fails, then re-test.

Saturday morning

What to do

Saturday evening, arrival hour

What to do

Saturday evening, running the session

What to do

Saturday evening, closing time

What to do


Scenarios

"Sarah opened her link but her name on her phone is wrong"

Two possibilities. Either you swapped two people's URLs when emailing (use the swap or reassign action), or Sarah's application name was wrong and the card + slot both have the wrong name. Open the roster, find her slot, click Edit name/pronouns/intentions, fix it, then Reprint. Hand her the new physical card, discard the old one. Her phone binding survives the rename.

"Two attendees swapped cards at the door"

Easy to spot if they've both claimed already (their phones say the wrong name). Open the roster, find either of their slots, menu, Swap # with another. Enter the other number. Both get new URLs and get marked printed again. Reprint just those two (select both, click Print selected). Hand the fresh cards out and text them their new URLs via Copy join link.

"Jamie's phone died"

On the roster, find Jamie's slot, menu, Unclaim. This clears the phone binding and mints a new URL. Click Copy join link in the same menu. Hand Jamie a borrowed phone or their own once charged, paste the URL, tap Continue on the preview, they're back in. Jamie's name card number stays the same so nothing else in the room needs to change.

"Someone I approved dropped out last minute"

In apply, re-review their application as declined. The bridge auto-revokes their slot in Sin the Bottle. Their number stays parked to their revoked slot. If someone else needs that number, use Reassign # to selected on their revoked slot (select the target first).

"Half the room didn't read the join-link email"

Normal. On each row, hit Show QR - a big QR pops up on your screen and the attendee scans it with their phone camera. Takes five seconds per person. Copy join link is the AirDrop/SMS alternative. If you'd rather batch, go back to apply and click Email join links (unclaimed only); already-opened links are skipped.

"Taylor is vouched-for but didn't apply"

Ask the person who vouched. If you're happy, use Add walk-in in the roster. Type Taylor's name, optionally pronouns + intentions + number. On save, a QR for Taylor's join link pops up on your screen - they scan it on the spot. Then print their card (pops out in the next print batch) and hand it over.

"Attendee is on yellow but hasn't tapped clear and the next round is waiting"

You've already checked in with them. If they're good to rejoin, click the yellow light in the host panel's Players Needing Attention box to clear it yourself. If they're not rejoining (want to sit out the rest), leave them on yellow - they just won't get paired.

"Red hit during a main round"

The app ends the round for everyone. Walk to the person who hit red. If you know one of the pairs was in another room, walk to them too (or send a co-host if you have one). Don't restart rounds until you've physically confirmed everyone is okay. Check in with the red-hitter about whether they want to continue the night. If yes, they can tap clear and you can restart when ready. If no, mark them as spectating via their player menu, or just let them leave.

"The big screen isn't updating"

It polls every couple of seconds. Refresh the tab. If it still doesn't update, the wifi might be flaky - check your phone. Spectator is read-only, it won't break the session if it's down.

"Nobody's phones are updating"

Wifi problem, almost always. Try reconnecting on your phone first - if yours comes back, everyone else will too in the next poll cycle. If wifi is dead for the evening, announce that the app is paused and you'll run the rest manually. (This is rare; most venues are fine.)

"I ended the session by accident"

Click Reopen. You're back in waiting state. Everyone who had claimed is still claimed. Survey submissions are kept; they stop collecting once you reopen, and resume if you end again.

"My very first event and I'm nervous"

You're allowed to be nervous. Two tips that help: (1) do the Friday dry-run properly - print, test-claim one, walk through a mock round in your head. (2) Accept that the app's structure is doing the consent-gating work for you. You don't have to be a safety expert; you have to respond to yellow and red when they appear, and keep the room moving. That's it.

Rules of thumb